GIRLS — if you hit, slap, belittle, kick, punch, choke, throw things at, or control your boyfriends, you are the abuser. You are not a “strong woman”, “empowered”, or anything similar. You are hurting him. Even if his muscles are strong enough to take it, a hit or slap from someone you love is an emotional blow.
Written by a girl who’d never hit a guy.
don’t be ashamed to cry in public. especially at your university bookstore. no one expects you to keep it together when you’re paying $300 for a book your prof will reference once.
i’m a grad student now.
grad students are cool.
When I say I don’t have enough time to read, I’m either tumblring about books, checking out books on Goodreads, or rearranging my books.
life hack: spend your student loans on new clothes. you’ll still be just as poor and you’ll look a lot better